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Have yourself a very Neil Christmas

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If you know me then you know one thing. I’m boring. No wait not that. If you know me then you know one thing. I use far too many full stops instead of commas. No not that either. Get a grip Monnery and get this blog under way. Ok if you know me then you’ll know one thing about me – I’m not Christmassy at all. In fact I’m extremely anti-Christmas. I have been for many years.

I just feel that Christmas just brings stress and you are expected to act in a certain way and I don’t like that. The thing I hate above all in life is the feeling of being expected to be happy when in fact I’m not. I keep my emotions under such a tight leash that I wonder who the last person to see me genuinely happy was. I don’t even recall a time where I was genuinely happy. Of course the flip side to this is I am also rarely genuinely sad although this year gave me around nine days of hell in the Spring.

So instead of going to my Mum’s today I stayed here and spent the day on my own like I spend the majority of my life. It was well and truly my choice so I don’t want any pity for being alone at Christmas. I’m 29 not a teenager but even now people look down on you with those eyes when you tell them that you’ll be alone at Christmas. Like Christmas is different to any other day in the world. If you are not religious then Christmas has no real significance and as much as I am a Chris Kamara fan I’m not going to celebrate his birthday.

So here is a look into my world today. I woke up late in the morning. Got up just before the India v Pakistan T20 international and watched that (which Pakistan thoroughly deserved to win I must say). I had leftover Indian from last night and then this evening I scrolled through my Sky Movies library and downloaded and watched The Girl With A Dragon Tattoo (English version) and here we are I’m writing this and the Boxing Day Test Match is about to start at the MCG. This is my life and this is what I’ve chosen.

It has been interesting to read Twitter and Facebook all day as people speak about what they’ve got with a mix of excitement and disappointment. I just haven’t done the whole present thing for many a year as I think so many things are bought and then not used and I (unsurprisingly) don’t like the expectation of the whole process. The only thing I actually like is the food but it’s essentially just an elaborate roast dinner and I love roast dinners.

I wonder if I’ll ever celebrate Christmas like the rest of the world ever again. If I had kids that would be different (but I’m not having kids) so yeah so that as they say is that. I wonder what things will look like come this day 2013. I wouldn’t be too shocked if things are very similar and the Boxing Day Test next year with be an Ashes Test. Christmas is a strange beast but for me it is just another day.

This time last year I was seeing someone and they told me they would force me to be more Christmassy next year. I told her that is would be an impossible task but she was adamant and that she was never wrong. Well she met someone else and promptly stopped talking to me. Looking around I think I can now prove that she was wrong and I was maybe even less Christmassy this year than last which is quite something.

Ok I’m hungry (and really fancy a roast dinner) but I don’t have anything for one. I’ll go find something to eat and leave to you it. I hope you all enjoyed the day whatever you did and if you didn’t have the ‘stereotypical’ Christmas then don’t worry – I know a considerable amount of people who didn’t and remember – it is just a day.

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December 25th, 2012 at 11:33 pm

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  1. Good on you!

    I’ve never done Christmas on my own – and to be honest, we’ve settled into a Christmas routine which is not a stressful and tetchy as it may have been in the past – but good for you to have decided to do it on your own.

    I like to travel on my own – or go to cinema etc alone. You’d think in 2012 that the first question people ask when you say your doing something like that, that the first question asked wasn’t “Oh, who are you going with?!”

    Andrew Brown

    25 Dec 12 at 11:49 pm

  2. I couldn’t agree more that too much pointless tat is bought, and it’s wrong, but I get off the bus at that point. But to my mind, the antidote is well-chosen gifts that cost less but are worth more by any real definition. For instance, I took some photos of local beauty spots and sent them off to a printer, who made calendars that I gave out.

    No retailer is ever going to get rich out of me (and that’s why I don’t shed any tears over the supposedly disastrous decline in Christmas sales, and a lot of the other stuff that goes into “GDP”) but I like to think I’ve done something. What are your family into? You can aim well and get them something they’ll really like, it takes careful thought but worth the foort if it works.

    Then you’ve got charity…

    I actually did take part in the revelry you’re talking about, so you can forgive me if a comment at 10am the next morning isn’t perfect, but hopefully I’ve given some idea of what I’m trying to say.

    asquith

    26 Dec 12 at 10:06 am

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